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Amy, almost all of us (of course including myself) are faced with uncertainties everyday. People will choose the strategies, plans, responses, and or actions which fit their characters and goals. I very much agree that very often we have to “瀟ç‘一點”.
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Roy and TS,
This is an art of living. Our stress may come from regret of the past (like what we have discussed in Tracy’s blog release) and worry about the uncertainties in the future. It may be wise to 活在當下 since it is uneasy for us to map the future.
I think it is easy to understand but not really to do that….
â€œä½ æ°¸é ä¸çŸ¥é“è‡ªå·±çš„ä¸‹ä¸€æ¥æœƒè½åœ¨ä½•處†, so we need to think about “當下” as Amy said. How to do it is just simple, but very diffcult to achieve for everyone. First of all, you have to let ‘ego’ not working too much, forget the society status, wants, and the past memories which influencing you. In this way, you can enjoy any moment, and get the pleasure of being who you are, and what you really want (e.g. simple food & love)
Cherie is wise enough to understand SIMPLE STUFF is a kind of luck. ‘幸ç¦ä¸æ˜¯å¿…ç„¶, è¦æ‡‚得感æ©!’
Amy, Roy, TS & Cherie,
True it is â€œä½ æ°¸é ä¸çŸ¥é“è‡ªå·±çš„ä¸‹ä¸€æ¥æœƒè½åœ¨ä½•處â€.
Surprise to me that I need to end my half life journey in HSBC. I have not yet projected my likely future image yet. Anyway, just ‘go for fun’ first – spend 3 weeks to Turkey, Jordan and Syria. Tell you more in our next gathering.
Jenny if you have read this message, very very unlikely I can join the 31st Oct dinner.
å°æƒ , you can actually practice 活在當下. There will have another opportunity waiting for you. Be ready to take next challenge. Take care and enjoy your trip! We look forward to seeing you soon!
Feel sorry to hear that one of our schoolmates in Engineering Dept. has passed away during his trip in Tai Long Bay.