上海作家 – 徐敏霞

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1. Roy says

   Amy, almost all of us (of course including myself) are faced with uncertainties everyday. People will choose the strategies, plans, responses, and or actions which fit their characters and goals. I very much agree that very often we have to “瀟灑一點”.

   “你永遠不知道自己的下一步會落在何處” – uncertainty (I don’t know what I don’t know) – Oh, KM again

   September 23, 2009, 4:35 pm
2. TS says

   “你永遠不知道自己的下一步會落在何處”

   在Titanic(1997)內我很喜歡的一幕內亦有同樣的對白。每次重看時都很期待這一幕。

   Jack (男主角)在遊輪的豪華晚宴上被有心挖苦他的有錢人問到他有些甚麽打算，他亦說出了類似的對白：他本來是一個窮光蛋，幾天前憑著運氣在牌局中幸運地贏得了遊輪的船票，因機緣巧合地救了想自殺的女主角Rose而被賞賜出席豪華晚宴的機會，這是他無論如何也沒法預料得到的；他亦不知自己的明天醒來會在何處。最後他更舉杯向大家說了一句：『Make each day count.』。

   結果是他兩天後便葬身於大海中，這亦是他沒法可以預知的。

   September 23, 2009, 9:31 pm
3. Amy says

   Roy and TS,

   This is an art of living. Our stress may come from regret of the past (like what we have discussed in Tracy’s blog release) and worry about the uncertainties in the future. It may be wise to 活在當下 since it is uneasy for us to map the future.

   September 24, 2009, 11:44 pm
4. Cherie Lui says

   I think it is easy to understand but not really to do that….
   “你永遠不知道自己的下一步會落在何處” , so we need to think about “當下” as Amy said. How to do it is just simple, but very diffcult to achieve for everyone. First of all, you have to let ‘ego’ not working too much, forget the society status, wants, and the past memories which influencing you. In this way, you can enjoy any moment, and get the pleasure of being who you are, and what you really want (e.g. simple food & love)

   September 26, 2009, 8:06 pm
5. Amy says

   Cherie is wise enough to understand SIMPLE STUFF is a kind of luck. ‘幸福不是必然, 要懂得感恩!’

   September 27, 2009, 4:06 am
6. Siu Wai says

   Amy, Roy, TS & Cherie,

   True it is “你永遠不知道自己的下一步會落在何處”.

   Surprise to me that I need to end my half life journey in HSBC. I have not yet projected my likely future image yet. Anyway, just ‘go for fun’ first – spend 3 weeks to Turkey, Jordan and Syria. Tell you more in our next gathering.

   Jenny if you have read this message, very very unlikely I can join the 31st Oct dinner.

   September 27, 2009, 7:51 pm
7. Amy says

   小惠, you can actually practice 活在當下. There will have another opportunity waiting for you. Be ready to take next challenge. Take care and enjoy your trip! We look forward to seeing you soon!

   September 27, 2009, 10:20 pm
8. Amy says

   Feel sorry to hear that one of our schoolmates in Engineering Dept. has passed away during his trip in Tai Long Bay.

   September 27, 2009, 10:23 pm